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Life Weaving Happens Now

What thread do you choose?

Tapestry kit of a ladybird on table with scissors
The simple tapestry kit that complicates my life at Evergreen

I decide to take up tapestry. Just something small, that won’t take forever to do, not like the tapestries they do at The Gobelins Factory in Paris. They can be metres long and have many weavers sitting along the loom working for years to complete them. It will just be me, an amateur, setting nervous stitches for a few weeks.

At the shop I choose a beginner kit, suitable for children 8 years old and over. It’s a mini cross stitch kit of a ladybird. Just black and red threads on a white background. Simple. Basic. Easy. As I settle into my favourite chair and open the package, I recall hearing a psychic talk about life being a tapestry, and each of us is a thread with a part to play in the unfolding artwork.

When weavers at The Gobelins do their work, they use various coloured threads to re-create an existing design. They are following a pattern. There is a predictable outcome. When it’s completed it should look like the artwork that was being copied. And when I finish mine, it should look like the picture on the packet. If it doesn’t, I’ll know I’ve made a mistake.

But life isn’t like that.

We’re not threading to re-create that which already exists. We’re on our own as we pick colour, thread thickness, and stitch tension. Or whether we’ll do a stitch at all. Of course, our tools aren’t literal threads. Instead, we insert emotions, words, actions, stillness, or silence into the moment.

When a Gobelins tapestry is in progress, several weavers are positioned along the frame, doing different parts of it that will eventually join up with that being done by those beside them.

But life isn’t like that.

We can’t get ahead of ourselves. We can’t do things in advance of this moment. We can only work in this moment. Although we’d like to, we can’t step into the future further along the loom, add a bright sun and a love heart, then slip back to now, where skies are grey, and we are alone.

The future, which doesn’t exist except in our heads, can only be addressed in the now. We can’t jump ahead of the weaving and put a stitch in advance, then come up to it later. The stitching is done now, in the present moment. That’s where life weaving happens. The pattern is emerging now. The mingling of our threads with those of others, occurs now.

We can’t change the future because the future doesn’t happen. Only what is, happens. We can’t change the future because it never exists. All we can change is the now.

If you find yourself thinking about the future, think about this: the future heals itself in the now. Then stop thinking about the future and get weaving — now.

Whatever happens, you are the one weaving your life.

Weave love and peace and acceptance and warmth and kindness and hope.

Weave these things until you run out of thread and it’s your turn to step back from the loom of physical life.


My simple tapestry is coming along slowly. It's more complicated than I anticipated - a bit like life!

With love, Marlane

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